[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.203.cz\/proc-jsme-ve-vychove-deti-tak-casto-konzervativni\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.203.cz\/proc-jsme-ve-vychove-deti-tak-casto-konzervativni\/","headline":"Pro\u010d jsme ve v\u00fdchov\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed tak \u010dasto konzervativn\u00ed","name":"Pro\u010d jsme ve v\u00fdchov\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed tak \u010dasto konzervativn\u00ed","description":"Asi nen\u00ed t\u0159eba \u0159\u00edkat, \u017ee se o v\u00fdchov\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed vedou mnohdy velmi vzru\u0161en\u00e9 debaty. Valn\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161ina lid\u00ed tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee sou\u010dasn\u00fd syst\u00e9m je v\u00a0po\u0159\u00e1dku a nen\u00ed na n\u011bm nutn\u00e9 nic m\u011bnit, zat\u00edmco jin\u00ed…","datePublished":"2023-10-08","dateModified":"2024-01-08","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.203.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.203.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/03ef97ef22d1b0d07a8e6c50d88cc1823592c58a091286b466bcec36e31eaab2?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/03ef97ef22d1b0d07a8e6c50d88cc1823592c58a091286b466bcec36e31eaab2?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"203.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.203.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/art479317_3x2_20261003_140754_cRPuhN.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.203.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/art479317_3x2_20261003_140754_cRPuhN.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.203.cz\/proc-jsme-ve-vychove-deti-tak-casto-konzervativni\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":444,"articleBody":"\tAsi nen\u00ed t\u0159eba \u0159\u00edkat, \u017ee se o v\u00fdchov\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed vedou mnohdy velmi vzru\u0161en\u00e9 debaty. Valn\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161ina lid\u00ed tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee sou\u010dasn\u00fd syst\u00e9m je v\u00a0po\u0159\u00e1dku a nen\u00ed na n\u011bm nutn\u00e9 nic m\u011bnit, zat\u00edmco jin\u00ed tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee ve skute\u010dnosti d\u011btem ubli\u017euje. Je tak zaj\u00edmav\u00e9 se pod\u00edvat, pro\u010d je tolik lid\u00ed pr\u00e1v\u011b v\u00a0tomto ohledu tak konzervativn\u00ed. Pon\u011bkud ironicky to m\u00e1 p\u016fvod pr\u00e1v\u011b v\u00a0na\u0161em d\u011btstv\u00ed.\tNesm\u00edme zapom\u00ednat, \u017ee d\u011bti se u\u010d\u00ed p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm napodobov\u00e1n\u00edm. I proto jsou koneckonc\u016f vzory tak d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9. A t\u00edm nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edm, zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b v\u00a0ran\u00e9m st\u00e1diu \u017eivota, jsou pak samoz\u0159ejm\u011b rodi\u010de. Nen\u00ed tedy divu, \u017ee si je i n\u00e1sledn\u011b v\u00a0dosp\u011blosti idealizujeme a jejich chov\u00e1n\u00ed pova\u017eujeme za standard toho, jak bychom se m\u011bli chovat my sami. A to bez ohledu na to, zda tomu tak ve skute\u010dnosti je.\tJe pravdou, \u017ee jen m\u00e1lokdo si dok\u00e1\u017ee p\u0159iznat, \u017ee jeho rodi\u010de ud\u011blali p\u0159i jeho v\u00fdchov\u011b chyby. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, jsou i v\u00fdjimky, av\u0161ak ty se t\u00fdkaj\u00ed p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm velmi t\u00fdran\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed alkoholik\u016f, drogov\u011b z\u00e1visl\u00fdch a podobn\u011b. A ani zde nen\u00ed jist\u00e9, \u017ee si to tyto d\u011bti uv\u011bdom\u00ed. Proto\u017ee jakkoliv se k\u00a0n\u00e1m rodi\u010de chovali, pova\u017eujeme za naprosto norm\u00e1ln\u00ed.\t\tTo je tak\u00e9 d\u016fvod, pro\u010d se tak \u010dasto chceme chovat ke sv\u00fdm d\u011btem. Ve sv\u00e9 podstat\u011b t\u00edm vzd\u00e1v\u00e1me \u010dest na\u0161im rodi\u010d\u016fm a chceme pokra\u010dovat v\u00a0jejich pr\u00e1ci. Co si v\u0161ak neuv\u011bdomujeme je to, \u017ee podobn\u011b jako v\u0161e ostatn\u00ed, i metody v\u00fdchovy d\u011bt\u00ed se \u010dasem m\u011bn\u00ed, a tak\u00e9 \u017ee v\u00a0dob\u011b na\u0161ich rodi\u010d\u016f nebyly znalosti v\u00fdvoje d\u00edt\u011bte ani zdaleka na takov\u00e9 \u00farovni, jako je tomu dnes, co\u017e samoz\u0159ejm\u011b vedlo k\u00a0nejr\u016fzn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm chyb\u00e1m a omyl\u016fm, by\u0165 dob\u0159e m\u00edn\u011bn\u00fdm.\tNap\u0159\u00edklad sta\u010d\u00ed jen klasick\u00e9 napl\u00e1c\u00e1n\u00ed. D\u0159\u00edve se jednalo o nepostradatelnou v\u00fdchovnou metodu, dnes v\u0161ak ji\u017e v\u00edme, \u017ee jedin\u00e9, co se t\u00edm d\u00edt\u011b u\u010d\u00ed, je lh\u00e1t rodi\u010d\u016fm a sv\u00e9 proh\u0159e\u0161ky skr\u00fdvat. A to rozhodn\u011b nen\u00ed n\u011bco, co bychom cht\u011bli.\tProto je lep\u0161\u00ed d\u00e1t rad\u011bji na rady odborn\u00edk\u016f a p\u0159iznat si, \u017ee jakkoliv sv\u00e9 rodi\u010de milujeme, ani oni nebyli a nejsou dokonal\u00ed.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Pro\u010d jsme ve v\u00fdchov\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed tak \u010dasto konzervativn\u00ed","item":"https:\/\/www.203.cz\/proc-jsme-ve-vychove-deti-tak-casto-konzervativni\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]